10 questions

So.. Someone asked these questions to him for a project or something. And he sent me his answers. This is just so sweet. ❤️. 

1. How important is the relationship for you? 

This relationship is one of the most precious things that I have in my life right now and Im really grateful for having her in my life.

2. What does it feel to be in a long term commitment with someone?

It really feels great. Being with the one you truly love and being there for each other in the long run is the best feeling in the world.

3. What are the things you've learned from your long-term girlfriend/boyfriend?

I’ve learned that I’m incomplete without her. Not really dependent only on her but in the sense that knowing that you have a missing piece in her. I’ve learned that I have a lot of flaws but I also learned to be better and correct these things because of her.

4. Is it true that when you are in a long-term relationship, you really foresee a good future being with him/her?

Ofcourse, you won’t really make it wholeheartedly through a long term relationship without foreseeing a future with her. It’s really good to try to think about what’s gonna happen next and seeing myself with her until the end.

5. Have you ever planned for the future with your long-term girlfriend/boyfriend?

Yes! We open a lot of stuff about the future to one another. We plan about what we want our future lives to be.

6. How do you deal with conflicts?

We talk about it. A conflict will only be resolved completely with a really good talk. Also, we keep in mind that our relationship is always greater than our fight. We learned to resolve everything without having to let everything fall apart in our relationship.

7. What are your differences that made you grow stronger?

I guess I’m the type of person that is always an optimist and she is the type that is somewhat a pessimist. Having this combination in a relationship makes the talk about conflicts easier since we both have different perspective about a certain subject that we can share to each other.

8. What are your similarities that made you grow stronger?

We have similar likes and dislikes in a lot of things. And if not, we learn to like or try to do what the other person loves to do. I think this mentality made us really grow stronger.

9. What do you do to make this relationship last? How do you make him/her happy?

As I said, we always keep in mind that the relationship is always bigger than any fight that we would have. Everything is actually really easy when you really love someone. We don’t really spend much effort in “keeping the relationship” because with her, I just know everything falls in the right place. Just simple efforts to communicate each other and to talk to each other everyday is what I do to make her happy. Also, suprises and efforts to let her know that I love her is also valued by her.

10. What advice can you give to those who want to have a long-term relationship?

 

If you find the right person, never let her go. No matter what. Always keep her happy, always keep her safe. Always remember that your relationship is always worth saving. 

I will be the best girlfriend you've ever had

I’ll laugh at every joke you tell, even if it means I’d be the only one laughing with you. I’ll smile every time our eyes meet because these butterflies just won’t seem to leave. I’ll spend my Sundays with you, watching you jump in excitement as your favorite team scores. I’ll help you make dinner and feed it to you as long as you promise to help me clean afterwards. And if you want me there with you, I’ll watch every action/superhero movie with you as long as you’re willing to watch one chick flick with me. I’ll also have beer (or wine) with you while you talk about your day’s work. And when you’re sick, I’ll try my best to make you feel better with all the cuddling and sweet loving I can give.

As your girlfriend, I’ll give you your space. I’ll ask you how your day went—not out of routine, but out of curiosity, because I want to know which parts of your day made you smile and made you frown. As your girlfriend, I’ll make silly, annoying faces while you play video games just to see if you’ll notice (would that also make you move out of the same position you’ve been in for the past 3 hours?) I’ll also peel your Cuties for you while you complain about how small they are compared to oranges. I’ll surprise you on random occasions, and spoil you with sweet kisses and long hugs daily.

As your girlfriend, I promise to be loyal. Because at the end of the day, you’re the only one I want. I’ll be the one you can share your hopes, your dreams, and your fears. I’ll be your walking diary. I’ll be real, and I’ll promise to tell you how it is because you deserve nothing less. I’ll do my best to consider your thoughts and your feelings, and though I may not be able to fill in your size 12 shoes, I’ll try my damn hardest to walk in them first before I make my judgments.

As your girlfriend, I’ll yell, and I’ll cry. My insecurities and jealousy will eventually surface regardless of how hard I try to hide them. There’ll be times when I won’t make sense. And when I’m worried or confused, I’ll ask questions—lots of them. Sometimes, they’ll be long and stupid, so I’ll need you to be patient with me. I’ll give you long silences when I’m upset, and I’ll keep to myself when I’m not ready to talk to you. I’ll also make you mad—but since I won’t be able to read your mind, I’ll need you to tell me. And while we argue, I’ll work hard to consider your feelings and be fair.

As your girlfriend, I’ll treat you how I would want to be treated. I want to be all the good things to you, and though I know this can’t always be true, I’ll try my best to not be so bad. I can’t promise you I’ll be perfect, but as your girlfriend, I’ll do all I can to be the best one you’ve ever had.